Monday, December 20, 2010

My Year As A Dog. Part 2, in which I make an analogy.

After a couple of weeks of Being A Dog, I got lonely and tired of playing by myself. "Higglety-pigglety-pop! There must be more to life than this!" I said, to quote Mr Sendak.



And so, like Jennie, I packed a little suitcase, crammed it with high hopes and wide-eyed wonder [but no experience], and went walkabout. I googled "dogblogs". What a huge mistake.

In an instant, I was transported from my small familiar backyard to a dog park with no apparent fences.

There were thousands of dogs, and I didn't know a single one of them. I was awed, frightened, overcome really. I felt like a startled chihuahua in a pen of great danes at feeding time.

There were big dogs and little dogs, top dogs and wannabe top dogs, happy dogs and fearful dogs, working dogs and princess dogs.

I didn't see anyone who might want to be my friend. I was quite forlorn. Like any fearful dog in a strange dogpark I was tentative and nervously skirted the area for weeks, looking but not approaching.

Then one day, I plucked up my courage, and sniffed a bum [that is to say, I posted a comment].

After I hit Enter the 1st time, there was no turning back. "Will you be my friend?" I arfed as I went from dog to dog, kissing noses, and wagging my tail hopefully, ready to roll over and submit if need be. Over the year, I kissed about 20 butts noses. 3 [if I remember correctly] weren't interested and looked away. 6 were willing to play, but only in their corner of the dogpark. I hope one day, they'll get curious and go walkabout too.

And then, there were the rest! Who sniffed my bum back, wagged their tails, and became my friends. There may only be a few of them, but they make my daily visits to the dogpark an exciting and glorious time!

"Will you please, please, PLEASE play with me?"
I now completely understand how little Leo feels.

There are so many types of dogblogs out there, and a few niche ones too. Here are just 4 of the bigger/more popular groups I found:

Group 1: The Top Dogs
Some dogbloggers might take offence that I call this group Top Dogs but that's what they are to me.

Here are the vets, trainers, behaviourists, authors and other such scary people dog experts. Everyone seems to know what they're talking about and they often talk about serious things. Even the comments in these blogs are goldmines of information. Everyone else wants to be their friend. To get a comment from one of these top dogs is like getting a shout out from the pope.

Group 2: Agility Dogs
If the dogs in these blogs are dusty, muddy or stinky, it's not because they had a roll in possum poop. It's because they spent their day being useful to mankind, hunting, hauling, tracking and herding. I've yet to see an even faintly plump dog in these blogs. For fun, they do agility stuff. If they put their minds to it, they could probably leap through hoops of fire too.

In another life, before she became A Rotund Princess, Georgia The Pig Dog might have fit neatly into this group. That's A Big Might.

Group 3: Happy Dogs
The dogs in these blogs are happy grinners. All of them have fat beds and couches to lounge in. Some have an outfit for every day, with matching leashes and collars, of course. Well-groomed and well-adjusted, they have many friends and no bad days worth talking about.

I like these blogs. I envy these blogs. I'm dumbfounded that dogs like these exist. I envy the people who are their owners. I tried my best to fit into this group. But Georgia kept chewing her oufits [if you need a laugh today - please do click on this link] and didn't want to learn how to paint or play the piano. Besides, she [me] had Bad and Sad Days we were keen to share too. So we quickly exited stage left.

Group 4: Work-In-Progress Dogs
The dogs in these blogs have Good, Bad and Badder days in equal measure. They may have fluffy toys and outfits, but none of them ever survive very long. The owners often beat their breast and tear their hair out over how their dogs are misbehaving. They also cry copious tears of joy when Spot takes another baby step to being a good dog citizen.

This is, without a doubt, my favourite group. Mainly because I LOVE a good rant [both reading and writing one]. Based on rants alone, I believe this is where littledogsonlongleashes belongs. Look at that. Even the title is a rant!

In my opinion, Group 4 has a somewhat symbiotic relationship with Group 1. We supply the issues. They supply the answers. I've learnt a lot from Group 1, and from being a part of Group 4.

And in Part 3, I will share some of these fantastic lessons!

Until then.


Some lessons I've learnt from My 1st Year Of Blogging: THE SHORT VERSION.
1. There are A LOT of clever, beautiful and interesting dogblogs out there. Don't be resentful or envious. Just enjoy.
2.Take time to make friends. 10 good friends are better than 3000 acquaintances. [If I say this often enough, I'm sure I'll believe it too.]
3. If you want your dog[blog] to have lots of friends, disregard point 2 and head directly to the nearest BlogHop and LinkyLink. These are North American things. We don't have stuff like that in Australia, as far as I'm aware of.

8 comments:

sonia a. mascaro said...

Hi Georgia,
Very interesting that post about blog's dogs.
Do you know Lorenza's blog? Lorenza live in Mexico and she is so lovely. Here it's her link: http://eldiariodelorenza.blogspot.com/

Yes, it's lychee tree and it is full of fruits right now. I don't have rambutans tree... did you know that I never taste that one?

I am also glad I find your blog, it's make me smile too!
Thank you so much for the message in Portuguese!
Desejo a você um Feliz Natal e Prospero Ano Novo!
Beijos!
xxx
Sonia.

sonia a. mascaro said...

Ops! I mean Beijos! "xox"!

georgia little pea said...

Please do try a rambutan! They're the best fruit. And you can't stop after just one!

I will definitely check out lorenza's blog. I love meeting dogs from different countries and seeing how they live :)

sonia a. mascaro said...

Yes, I will try to find rambutan at the market or mall near my house.

Did you know that I saw the video but I don't understood the words of the little dog? Lol! (my weak English....)

Kristine said...

I love this post! It is so true and kind of portrays my first foray into meeting other bloggers as well. Though at time I still feel like such a new kid in town. :-P

Can't wait to read about the lessons you've learned!

georgia little pea said...

@Kristine - the north american dogblogging community is so active. there always seems to be something on - giveaways, quizzes, hops, meetings! how do you guys keep up?!! i suspect i would find it too exhausting. plus, who's going to vacuum and cook dinner? higglety-pigglety-pop! haha :p

@sonia - i shall try to transcribe and email you the words. it's a fantastic book and one of my favourite ones from childhood.

have a great day! xox

Kenzo said...

Haha, cannot stop laughing about this one. I think I'm gonna investigate if it is possible to rename "post a comment" to "sniff my butt" om my blog on blogspot :)

georgia little pea said...

that would be ultra funny! good luck! i shall look forward to sniffing your butt next year.

oh dear, that sounds SO bad! :p